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Don't Like, Don't Look

Don't Like, Don't Look” (嫌なら見るな, Iyanara Miruna), also rendered as “If you don't like it, don't look!”,1) is a retort typically used against people who criticize or voice their dislike of a work or idea. It's a very weak retort, thus why Japanese social media has satirized it for decades.

Summary

The statement asserts that criticism wouldn't exist if people didn't see it, but the problem is that it ignores the wide variety of circumstances for seeing it and generally invites hostility, regardless of intent or not, since it does nothing to deescalate a situation. In the worst case scenario, a person who uses this retort comes off as arrogant since “don't look” actually means “don't criticize”, thus invoking said hostility.

Arguments against

It's generally considered bad form to criticize something without looking at it, despite it being a common sight on the internet due to the bandwagon effect. When you give baseless critique, you'll be asked to actually look at it. However, if you give your critique after looking at it, being told that you didn't have to look when you didn't like it feels bewildering, which forms the following loop:

「Don't like, don't look!」 →    Criticize w/o looking
       ↑                 ↓
Criticize after looking  ← 「Don't criticize w/o looking!」

Furthermore, there are many reasons why a person might have look at a subject, despite their dislike, which range from intentional to unavoidable due to popularity, prevalence, or job obligation. Some people may be critics or have a healthy relationship with the subject matter that they can criticize it, others have a passionate hatred, then you have cautionary hatred, jealousy, and many other ugly emotions.

Arguments for

On the other hand, the statement does carry some validity. If a work contains divisive elements (e.g. abuse, depression, gore, homosexuality, horror, mental illness, NTR, rape, violence, etc.) and it sufficiently warns you,2) then it's odd to complain. There's also the belief that hate-watching has an inverse effect, as it can mislead companies into making more of what people hate.

Text artwork

This statement was so commonplace on 2channel, despite it being an anonymous website where people are generally comfortable voicing their own dislikes, that people made AA to satirize the retort. The text artwork depicts a tall character shouting “Don't Like, Don't Look” while they randomly flash their genitalia to someone, regardless of the target's will or what the target's sexuality happens to be.

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         / ̄(S)~\  <                      >
       / / ∧ ∧\ \<  DON'T LIKE? DON'T LOOK!  >
       \ \( ゚Д,゚ ) / /<                      >
         \⌒  ⌒ /  ノ Y´`Y´`Y´`Y´`Y´`Y´`Y´`Y´`Y´`Yヽ
          )_人_ ノ
          /    /
      ∧_∧ ■□ (    ))
     (   ; )■□  ̄ ̄ヽ
   γ⌒   ⌒ヽ  ̄ ̄ノ  ノ
 ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄|
            ∧_∧    <   DON'T LIKE?
          , -(´Д`# )- 、 、 <  DON'T LOOK!
          /          )  YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
        ./ λ     / /
        .〈  〈 〉   / / "
       .゛ ヽ ヽ∧∧/ /〃        ______
X⌒X⌒X⌒ ./\ つと ノ \ X⌒X⌒X⌒ll 二二 l 二二 lll
i二二i二二i/  / し J  \ \二i二二i /__/__/ll
      〈  〈(( .~ l )) 〉  〉    ll,== ll, ==ll,"ll
       \ \ し^J  / /
       ヾ \ \  / /
         (⌒  ) ( ⌒)
   (  Don't like, don't look...  )
    `~~~○~~~~~~'
   ∧_∧ O
   ( ; ゚Д゚)o
   /    ヽ
   |     /⌒ヽ ⌒ヽ       _______________
   | |    / v  | ∧_∧   /I took the trouble to see you today, \
   | |   / |  |(     ) < but your body, is seriously disgusting!|
  / |l.     |  |⊂    )、_\I don't understand who'd like this! /
⊂とノヽ __人  l、(__つつ__)  ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄ ̄
         (___)

Notes

  • “Don't Like, Don't Look” can also be translated as “Don't Like, Don't Watch”, but it wouldn't exactly work for print media like books, magazines, manga, and newspapers.
  • Compare it to statements like “Don't like it? Quit!” (嫌なら辞めろ, Iyanara Yamero) and “If you don't feel like it, then go home.” (やる気がないなら帰れ, Yaruki ga nainara kaere).
  • In the Chinese language, it's often rendered as “Don't Like, Don't Enter” (不喜勿入, Bùxǐ Wùrù).
1)
The phrase may be rendered as “If you don't like it, then don't look at it”, “If you don't like it, don't look at it”, “If you don't like it, then don't look”, “If you don't like it, don't look”, etc.
2)
With the internet, there are community-driven resources like Does The Dog Die where people report if certain media potentially contains discomforting, problematic elements.
don_t_like_don_t_look.txt · Last modified: 2024-09-23 00:24:07 by 127.0.0.1